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This week on the Hot Spot we reviewed the subtleties of erotic humiliation, and went over the types of embarassing calls we find to be most popular. Here is a recap, but to have the most fun, remember to download the show!
Types of Humiliation:
Appearance: Having someone dress in a way that makes them uncomfortable is a great way to exert domination while heightening emotions. During play you can remove someone’s status by changing their clothes. Turning them into a slut/whore, coercing a submissive into a short skirt and makeup will definitely shake up the mundane! If the outside image is changed then the inside image begins to falter.
Face Slapping: While it is quite demeaning to be slapped in the face it can also intensify the mood of any scene. However, it is very important to be safe…..slapping someone involves an open hand, never a closed fist. You want to provide a sting without hurting anyone! Subs want to experience the feeling of being controlled….when you slap someone you are showing them the hierarchy of power in your relationship. Slapping someone in the face exemplifies your position of control.
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Language: Can define, reinforce and recreate a person’s reality. Name calling, insults or labels that reduce a person can have a tremendous effect. The right word, spoken in the right tone can evoke memories and feelings that will set the stage for an entire scene. Then there’s the use of description, to have your behaviours, body or feelings used as language gives them a vivid existence.
Small penis: Do We really need to say more about this? So many claim to be “about” X inches, and I know that always is a rounded up amount! We happen to love small penis huhumiliation and can be very creative in our approach to it. I think penis size is almost too important to men, and is easy to throw off a man’s ego with a word or sigh. Descriptions and comparisons to the size…lipstick tube, etc. and the physics of penetration are interesting to this dynamic, and often a so humiliating as to make a Mistress laugh.
Spanking: This gives great humiliation when done correctly, ie if you are not into spanking! Imagine (and I know this will excite some of you) but imagine being called over a woman’ knee. This very act is symbolic to submission and can bring out feelings of embarrassment and shame. The spanking that occurs after “assuming the position” along with the disciplinary lecture delivered in a calm, matter of fact voice can create a very humiliating scene!
Human Animal Roleplay: Referring to submissives as as pet, dog, girl, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls is an amazing act of submission and humiliation. Taking away the humanity from a person can ne erotic yet so degrading and humiliating. Mistresses are pleased by this type of erotic submission and humiliation.
So What is Erotic Humiliation in a Nutshell?
“Being fucked in the mind is infinitely more powerful than being fucked anywhere else” Ms. Delia and Ms. Layla bring this thought into every sexy and erotic humiliation call.
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