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The Weekly Hot Spot 63: Tease and Denial

Delia — Sun, 19 Jun 2011 03:43:00 +0000

For Mistress Delia and Mistress Layla, knowing that we have erotic control of a man is very hot: knowing how to control that control is even hotter! This week on The Weekly Hot Spot, we discussed this control; the control of Tease and Denial. Our focus was not on what WE could do, but was on all of the feelings T&D brought up in our wonderful friends over at Enchantrix Empire. Take a look:

JohnnyBravo420 on ClaireEnchantrix’s http://mistressphonesexchat.com/ profile:
Hello my American Mistress, your audio was most pleasing to listen too and it makes chastity even HARDER! However the journey I am taking with you is something no orgazm can replace.Talk soon…

Denial for Mistress Gemma Day3 by daisy303 www.femdomphonesexcalls.com
In day 3 in my Denial I was on my computer the funny thing happend my little dickie got hard so i was chatting and i told myself dont cum and i was dressed in my black night gown when this happend. I woke this moning and didnt see any cum in my panties but it was hard still a little so i took a shower but i still didnt cum so i put m panties back on and clothes and went to work with a little hard on but i didnt cum it was hard to work. When i got home i took a shower and let myself dry off i still was hard and i put my feminine clothes back on itwas about to cum but i held it in. So thats another succseful denial. So that’s day 3 of my denial so stay tuned for more of daisys Denial for Mistress Gemma i have 28 days left unless Mistress wants me to do it longer.

saloo about Alexis: My Denial Goddess http://sensualphonemistress.com/
I don’t know what really happens to me when I talk to my goddess Alexis.. I want to orgasm but i am not allowed to.. Last night I was going to do it and it almost happend but when she said NO then i quit and it was the best denial i’ve ever had… Thank you so much Goddess Alexis …

Chronic Masturbator discusses Non-stop since wifes sister caught me masturbating (again) http://phonesexmasturbation.com/
Alexandria played the part perfectly and totally took control of my cock after walking in on me beating off while the wife was out. I have been beating off pretty much non stop, pounding fast and furious since then. I have been on the edge closer than I ever have before, using every bit of strength to hold back till i get permission to cum. I am shaking and twitching because I’m so damn close to orgasm!! I think I might lose my mind if I am not found worthy of a release. I am willing to do just about anything to be able to explode all over the place. I feel like such a pathetic jerk off not being able to cum when I want, to have to get permission to have an orgasm. I beat off constantly and now have no control over it, she ownes me and she knows it, if my wife finds out I was caught masturbating, again, she will divorce me. How fucking pathetic would that be, getting divorced for being a chronic masturbator!!!

teezedpurple talks about ORGASM DENIAL DAY 39on 3-18-2011
I had a most wonderful 20 minute call with Ms. Tia. I also tried some anal play for the first time. I inserted a small contoured vobrator in my anus and used a second dildo shaped vibrator on my balls and cock. I made excellent use of my cock ring and it helped me maintain great control. I edged for Mistress Tia during our phone session 5 times. I was then commanded to continue my edging the rest of the afternoon which I did. This evening there is to be a full moon and it is to be the closest to the earth in years. Mistress Tia has asked me to edge for her this evening as long as I can before I fall asleep.
I can say that my balls are so full and I ache to cum so badly. Thank You Mistress Tia for your guidance and your paitience with you edge pet.

Gummybear discussed denial on www.begformistress.com
Begging is such an integral part of my fantasy, even though I worry that my begging might be good enough and I am rewarded with an unwanted orgasm. I know it sounds counter intuitive to beg for an orgasm that I don’t want but that’s me. I love to beg and I love being told no. I beg for release and now I’m on permanent denial. I love to beg, and plead, finding that special someone who enjoys hearing it but will never be swayed by it is truly magical.

wessypoo on www.shecantalk.com Ms. Morgan
I love edging and denial! It’s all about letting things build and giving up control to a Mistress while letting her decide when is the best time for release. Plan ole’ jerking off becomes kind of boring once you experience putting your cock into her hands.

The Weekly Hot Spot 63: Unusual Fetishes

Delia — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 11:59:26 +0000

This week on the Hot Spot, Ms. Delia and Ms. Layla has Ms. Cecilia come over for a visit to discuss the more unusual types of kinks and fetishes. Below we will give a quick recap of the ones we discussed, and so that you can reap the benefits of the entire show and great chat time discussing unusual kinks and fetishes, you can download for all those tasty bits.

Plushophilia
Lovers of all things furry, “plushies” love furry creatures that aren’t real. Dressing up as furry animals giving them human qualities, are especially popular The goal is to find a level of cuteness that stimulates arousal, and depending on the animal imitated.

Agalmatophilia
This a fantasy of having sexual (or non-sexual) encounters with the animate or inanimate instances like a statue of the Venus de Milo and being discovered while attempting coitus with it.
Robot fetishism or technosexuality is an attraction to humanoid robots; also to people acting like robots or people dressed in robot costumes. The fetish came to be known as ASFR.
The second type of fantasy is referred to as “transformation”. This involves a human who has been turned into an android. That person can be either oneself or one’s partner, or both. It is usually the process of transformation that is the focus of this fantasy.

Forniphilia
This is a form of bondage and sexual objectification in which a person’s body is incorporated into a chair, table, cabinet or other piece of furniture. The term was originally coined by Jeff Gord (of House of Gord).

Sexy Smoking

Capnolagnia (Smoking Fetish)
This is arousal based on the sight or image of a sexy woman smoking. Smoking is definitely a part of the BDSM and femdom culture. The anti-smoking campaigns, this has turned this fetish into a taboo act, increasing the eroticism by women taking power with this taboo act.

Medical Fetishism
A Doctor can be cause for any fantasy Examinations may include an examination of the anus, handling and/or twisting of the penis, testicles and nipples. Very often strap-on play is involved as this definitely enhances the intimacy. To further add to the humiliation aspect of this fetish many times restraints will be used and some form of embarrassing clothing.

Macrophilia (Giantess Fetish)
It is typically based around a smaller male and a giantess with the female being the dominant . The fantasy can be divided into two categories: either the female grows by some means and the male remains the same height, or the woman remains the same height and the male shrinks.

There were many more fetishes discussed, a great call in segment, and a sexy segment we shared with Ms. Cecilia! This is show to be downloaded.

The Weekly Hot Spot 62: Erotic Humiliation

Delia — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 11:03:40 +0000

This week on the Hot Spot we reviewed the subtleties of erotic humiliation, and went over the types of embarassing calls we find to be most popular. Here is a recap, but to have the most fun, remember to download the show!

Types of Humiliation:

Appearance: Having someone dress in a way that makes them uncomfortable is a great way to exert domination while heightening emotions. During play you can remove someone’s status by changing their clothes. Turning them into a slut/whore, coercing a submissive into a short skirt and makeup will definitely shake up the mundane! If the outside image is changed then the inside image begins to falter.

Face Slapping: While it is quite demeaning to be slapped in the face it can also intensify the mood of any scene. However, it is very important to be safe…..slapping someone involves an open hand, never a closed fist. You want to provide a sting without hurting anyone! Subs want to experience the feeling of being controlled….when you slap someone you are showing them the hierarchy of power in your relationship. Slapping someone in the face exemplifies your position of control.

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Language: Can define, reinforce and recreate a person’s reality. Name calling, insults or labels that reduce a person can have a tremendous effect. The right word, spoken in the right tone can evoke memories and feelings that will set the stage for an entire scene. Then there’s the use of description, to have your behaviours, body or feelings used as language gives them a vivid existence.

Small penis: Do We really need to say more about this? So many claim to be “about” X inches, and I know that always is a rounded up amount! We happen to love small penis huhumiliation and can be very creative in our approach to it. I think penis size is almost too important to men, and is easy to throw off a man’s ego with a word or sigh. Descriptions and comparisons to the size…lipstick tube, etc. and the physics of penetration are interesting to this dynamic, and often a so humiliating as to make a Mistress laugh.

Spanking: This gives great humiliation when done correctly, ie if you are not into spanking! Imagine (and I know this will excite some of you) but imagine being called over a woman’ knee. This very act is symbolic to submission and can bring out feelings of embarrassment and shame. The spanking that occurs after “assuming the position” along with the disciplinary lecture delivered in a calm, matter of fact voice can create a very humiliating scene!

Human Animal Roleplay: Referring to submissives as as pet, dog, girl, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls is an amazing act of submission and humiliation. Taking away the humanity from a person can ne erotic yet so degrading and humiliating. Mistresses are pleased by this type of erotic submission and humiliation.

So What is Erotic Humiliation in a Nutshell?

“Being fucked in the mind is infinitely more powerful than being fucked anywhere else” Ms. Delia and Ms. Layla bring this thought into every sexy and erotic humiliation call.

The Weekly Hot Spot 60 Romance in Kink

Delia — Sat, 28 May 2011 04:57:37 +0000

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In your Femdom relationship is romance important?

On this week’s show this topic was covered in depth. Discussions formed off of two Enchantirx Empire polls put up by Ms. Layla. Most agreed that romance is essential to any relationship, and maybe even especially in a kinky relationship, even romantic phonesex is possible! Trust, comfort, and connection can all be fostered by romance, and are essential to any BDSM scene.

Why Does Romance Matter?

Everyone agreed by the end of the show that romance is essential. Keeping romance in any relationship can be challenging. Keeping the romance in a kink relationship can be especially challenging at times given the D/s dynamic or the misconceptions surrounding pain and pleasure.

Communication Is Key. Right from the start you both need to be clear and define what romance means to you, how important is it, what responsibility you will take in creating it and maintaining it in your relationship.

Talk as much as you can and share yourself openly. Respect yourself and your lover, its the best way to keep the love and magic in your relationship. Be interested! Ask them how they feel and really mean it.

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Ms. Olivia rang in on this fantastic topic, and did so because of a conversation had in Community Kink Chat along with the polls. Ms. Olivia, intriegued by this topic did an interview with Ms. Delia. The two discussed kink relationships and the place romance must hold in that very type of relationship. Ms. Olivia’s Blog holds this sexy interview and much more on the topic.

This show had some very funny jokes, and a special call in section where amazing insights were shared. Be sure to tune in next week when the topic will be sexual humiliation, erotic or not.

The Weekly Hot Spot 59: Fire Breath Orgasm

Delia — Sat, 21 May 2011 02:21:01 +0000

Fire Breath Orgasm

Ms Delia and Ms. Layla were visited by Ms. Claire, and shared a Fire Breath Orgasm with the group! It was intense. This is a meditation involving moving energy up your body in a sequence of circles.

What to do:

Lie or sit comfortably. Relax your jaw, yawn and open up the back of your throat. Breath in through your nose and out through your mouth (if this is not comfortable for whatever reason please breath in whatever way is comfortable for you). The most important thing is to get as much air as comfortably possible. The breath is a circle with no break, no pause between the inhale and exhale.
As you inhale let your belly expand and as you exhale rock your hips forward.
Now add your kegel, squeeze on the exhale.

1. Begin to imagine pulling energy into your perineum, use your mind and your breath. Energy follows thought so don’t stress, don’t push it just imagine it however you see it entering your body. It is sometimes helpful to place your hand on the chakra you are working with.
2. Now inhale, imagining that you are pulling the energy up to your 2nd chakra, your sex center. On the exhale circulate the energy back down to the perineum. Visualize this circle of energy and breath remembering to tighten your kegel muscles with each exhale and rock your hips. Stay here until you feel your sex center is alive with energy, bigger more alive.

3. Move the circle. Breathe the energy between your second chakra and your third. Keep rocking, keep kegeling. Again, continue until this area is charged.

Keep breathing…by now I hope you are feeling some of the physical and erotic effects of the energy in your body.

4. Move the circle so you are breathing between your 3rd chakra and your 4th (heart) chakra. Breathe and imagine the circle of energy flowing easily and steadily with each breath.

5. The next circle is between your 4th and 5th (throat) chakras. By the time the energy reaches your throat chakra it will more than likely be moving on its own and you’ll be feeling like making some noise! Open your throat and let whatever sounds feel right come out. Doing this will help the energy move.

6. Circle the energy between your 5th and 6th chakras. While your eyes are closed roll them up, this will help the energy move upward.

7. The last circle is between your 6th and 7th chkara.

When you try this by yourself or with a friend listen to your body, listen to your intuition, feel the energy. At each step trust yourself, you will know when you are ready to move on.

Please visit Ms. Layla’s blog for a more detailed version of this special energy orgasm! See you next week when we will discuss keeping the romance alive in your kinky relationship.